We ourselves will at many points think, feel and act in ways that contradict the idealized concept of love. The whole concept of caring for others includes to act in ways that are not compatible with like or love. It goes to this : We are frustrated when not likeable things happen like children do and we do not get trained to accept that our frustration and discomfort is not reason enough to believe we are entitled to exactly what we want despite of life, society, reality.
